Do you ever find yourself “playing it cool” in hopes of making someone chase you? It can feel like a game, and one that is hard to win. But what if there was a way to make them chase you without playing any games at all? In this blog post, we’ll explore how you can turn the tables and have them pursuing you with genuine interest and enthusiasm. Say goodbye to the exhausting “cool” act and hello to a more authentic, enjoyable experience of getting someone to chase you.
When it comes to dating, it can be challenging to know how much interest to show in the early stages. On one hand, you don’t want to come off too strong and scare the other person away. On the other hand, you don’t want to play it so cool that they lose interest altogether. Fortunately, in this video, we are given five tips on how to show interest without playing it cool. Let’s dive in!
Chapter 1: Taking Baby Steps of Encouragement
Showing interest in someone doesn’t have to come in the form of a grand gesture. In fact, it’s often better to take baby steps of encouragement. For example, sending a simple text that says, “I had a great time with you last night” after a date can be a great way to show your interest without being too overbearing. It shows that you enjoyed their company and are interested in seeing them again.
Chapter 2: Giving a Snapshot in Time
When trying to show interest, it can be easy to get carried away and start planning your entire future with this person. However, it’s essential to keep in mind that you’re only in the early stages of getting to know them. Instead of talking about your future together, focus on enjoying the present moment. Share a snapshot of something fun you’d like to do together, like going to see a movie or trying out a new restaurant.
Chapter 3: Not Needing an Emotional Babysitter
Showing interest in someone doesn’t mean needing constant reassurance or validation from them. It’s essential to trust yourself and enjoy the process of getting to know this person without constantly seeking their approval. Remember, you are just as worthy of their attention and affection as they are of yours.
Chapter 4: Focusing on What We Should Be Most Concerned With
When it comes to dating, it can be easy to get caught up in the superficial aspects of a person, like their looks or job. However, it’s essential to focus on what matters most – their character and values. Showing interest in someone’s positive qualities and shared interests can be a great way to deepen your connection.
Chapter 5: Setting Standards
It’s crucial to have standards when it comes to dating. Knowing your worth and what you want out of a relationship is key to building a healthy and fulfilling partnership. If the other person is not meeting your standards or making you feel valued, it’s okay to communicate that to them and move on.
In conclusion, we don’t have to “play it cool” to show interest in someone. Taking baby steps of encouragement, sharing a snapshot in time, trusting ourselves, focusing on what matters most, and setting standards are all great ways to show interest in someone without being too overbearing. Remember, it’s essential to invest in ourselves and believe in our own worth when it comes to dating.
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