Is She Into You Or Just Being Nice?

Trying to decipher if someone is genuinely interested in you or just being polite can be a daunting task. Whether you’re on a first date or just interacting with someone in a social setting, it’s essential to understand the signs that may indicate if someone is into you or not. In this blog post, we’ll explore some commonly observed behaviors and subtle cues that can help you determine if she’s into you or just being nice. So, let’s dive in and decode some of these signals!


Are you having trouble deciphering whether the woman you’re interested in is really into you or if she’s just being polite? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. The following guide will provide you with some valuable tips and tricks to help you determine if she’s genuinely interested or if she’s just being cordial.

Signs she’s into you

  1. She finds ways to touch you
    When a woman is attracted to someone, she might try to find ways to touch them. This can be as simple as brushing your arm or shoulder, or even playfully hitting you during a conversation.

  2. She maintains eye contact
    Eye contact is one of the most significant indicators of whether or not someone is interested in you. If she maintains eye contact for extended periods, it’s a sign that she’s engaged and interested in what you’re saying.

  3. She laughs at your jokes
    If a woman laughs at your jokes, especially the not-so-funny ones, it could be a sign that she’s into you. It’s essential to note, however, that laughing at your jokes alone isn’t enough to conclude she’s interested in you.

  4. She initiates conversations or keeps them going
    If she continues to initiate conversations with you or keeps them going, that’s a clear indicator that she’s interested in you. She’s taking the time to engage with you, even if she’s busy or preoccupied.

  5. She asks you personal questions
    If she’s curious about your life, or asking you personal questions about your job, family, or interests, it’s a sign that she wants to know more about you.

Signs she’s just being polite

  1. Short answers
    If she’s only giving you short answers to your questions or not elaborating much in the conversation, that’s a possible sign that she’s not interested.

  2. She doesn’t make an effort with her appearance
    If she’s not dressed up or taking any extra time to look good when in your presence, it could mean that she’s just not that into you.

  3. She doesn’t try to initiate physical contact
    If she’s not initiating physical contact or trying to touch you, she’s not that interested. Remember, women don’t usually make the first move in these situations.

  4. She’s consistently busy
    If she consistently cancels plans or always seems to be too busy to hang out, that’s not a great sign. It could mean that she’s trying to let you down easy or that she’s genuinely busy with other things.

  5. She talks about other guys
    If she’s talking about other guys, her ex-boyfriend, or even just celebrity crushes, that’s a clear indicator that she’s not that interested in you.


While it can be challenging to determine if someone is interested in you, these tips should give you a better idea of where you stand. Remember to pay attention to her body language, the way she interacts with you, and whether or not she initiates physical contact. And most of all, don’t be afraid to ask her out! You never know, she might surprise you by saying yes.


  1. Who is Tripp?
    Tripp is a professional dating coach who provides 1-on-1 coaching services via video. He has a website,, where his services can be accessed.

  2. Where can I find Tripp on social media?
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  3. Does Tripp have a podcast?
    Yes, there is a How to Talk to Girls podcast available on Apple and Spotify.

  4. Does Tripp offer any free resources?
    Yes, Tripp offers a free video guide, and his ebook, Magnetic, can be obtained.

  5. How can I contact Tripp for business inquiries?
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